Friday, September 16, 2011

Just like Mom





So I didn't get a girl to be just like me. Instead, I have William. And he is at that great imitating age. When I want to cook, so does he. When I am at my computer, that is where he wants to be. He tries on my shoes. He grabs my phone. And while I do love that he is copying me...the phone thing REALLY bugs me :-).

Today I caught him in the kitchen playing with a pan and spoon. He is a total camera bug too, so it is hard to catch him in the act. He usually likes to turn and say cheese.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

A Day That Will Live in Infamy

For my grandparents, this was the day that Pearl Harbor was attacked. Following that, there was not a single large-scale attack by a foreign power on the US for over 50 years. Nearly two generations grew up believing that nothing could get them while at home. To be honest, I hope another two generations will make it without knowing the anger and fear that come with being attacked on your home soil.

For those of us in our early twenties on September 11, 2001, this has been a difficult decade. We remembered the Cold War. We remembered the Berlin Wall falling. We also remembered the outbreak of peace and prosperity. The feeling of euphoria because we (and our way of government and life) triumphed over the evil communists. That day changed our world view. More importantly, we knew that it would change everything. We would have to bear the brunt of all of it. We would have to lead the way as we grew up and became leaders. Now we have watched as the markets have rollercoastered. We have made and lost fortune after fortune. We will be forced to carry the burden of one of the largest generations as they enter retirement. But yet we remain committed...unfaltering.

For those of us in the military, the last decade has been even harder. We have gone off into the great unknown to fight an enemy that is hard to see or define. We have lost friends and family members in our pursuit of evil. Our tears water the ground where they lay. But yet we remain committed...unfaltering.

I remember that day. I was in Washington DC. As I sat at Bolling AFB, I saw all the planes on the ground at National Airport. Just creepy. I saw the smoke rise from the pentagon. I sat in HOURS of traffic trying to get back to my little apartment. But what I remember most is the way everyone pulled together. Much of the Metro stopped running, leaving people stranded all over. That could be fixed, I have room in my car. They walked out of offices with no personal items, no phones, no way to tell loved ones they were ok. That could be fixed, here is my phone. The smoke was thick, it was so hot. Don't worry, I will give you water. This is the lesson we must take away.

I do not want this to be a National Holiday. I want us to be mindful but moving on...moving forward. If this was a National Holiday, it would cheapen the sacrifice of both those that died that day and those that still battle the monsters of that day. A National Holiday would give the terrorists the satisfaction of having changed our lives permanently. They didn't, we are stronger than that. It would be another day of blockbuster sales and other such things. Instead I will honor those that died, those that rushed to help, and those that continue to serve. After that I will go back to my life; I will teach my kids to not fear; I will remember and then I will forget so that we may continue as America has for over 50 years feeling secure in our homes and knowing that we are stronger than one attack. I will remain committed...unfaltering.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Summer's End

I know that we are far from ending summer in Savannah, but Anthony did find a leaf that had changed colors today. By this he has declared it fall. Don't worry, I am not breaking out the sweaters or long pants just yet.

To celebrate the ending of summer, we went to Splash in the Boro. It is a kid sized water park that is actually run by the county out in Statesboro (again, why can't Savannah or Richmond Hill pull this together). It is about an hour away, and the boys simply love it.

We spent nearly 6 hours splashing and playing in the cloudy day. It was perfect!







Saturday, September 3, 2011

Now We Are Six

I love A A Milne. Winnie the Pooh is one of the sweetest collections of tales about growing up. Few people actually read his other works (or actually read Winnie the Pooh vice watching it in cartoon form). But my mom sent me the whole series that had once been mine. Anthony and I are reading, "Now We Are Six." It is a good way to start his 6th year.



I cannot believe that he is six. Everyone said that the time would pass quickly...and it has. Worse, it seems to be speeding up. Each day he seems to find a new independence. I am both proud and sad as I watch him grow into a young boy. It seemed so improbable given his start.

He was so frail in those first few months. Now he is anything but. He prides himself on being strong. His imagination makes smile. But he is also very grounded in reality reminding me that 'no mom, that is not real.' I love it!!! So, while I miss the small cuddly infant who needed me so. I also celebrate the boy he is becoming...strong, independent, compassionate, and adventurous.

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